Monday, May 31, 2010

@ Kaisah jatuh tilam

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Hiks... lawak la pulak... Kaisah sekarang nih tido lasak bangat... kalau letak Thaqif dekat-dekat ngan Kaisah kompom kena tendang punya... hihihihi... alalalala, bukannye dia sedar pun... entah-entah tengah dok mimpi belajar silat ke hape ke kan kan kan... ;)

Btw, masa ibu Kaisah and Thaqif dok bz menyetelkan dokumen yang kena disettlekan... Kaisah dah tido selepas episod menyayat hati yang mana pahanya yang mungil itu telah dicubit by me... tetiba, jeng jeng jeng... 'jatuh... jatuh...' Kaisah jerit tapi tak kuat la... pastu senyap... bila ibu Kaisah and Thaqif berpaling jek... tengok-tengok Kaisah dah tido separuh badan kat lantai, separuh badan kat atas tilam... wakakakaka... yang buat lagik lawak tu... pastu Kaisah angkat kepala then berkata-kata... 'Ibu, Kaisah jatuh...' pastu bummm, terus sambung tido...

Kesian anak den... terus aku peluk, cium dan angkat Kaisah letak bebetul kat atas tilam...

@ maafkan ibu wahai anakku

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Hari ni ibu Kaisah dan Thaqif agak emo dengan Kaisah... huhuhuhu... mane taknye, asyik dok wat perangai jek... geram betul... dibaling-balingnye benda, disepah-sepahkan bilik, dikoyak-koyaknye kertas... huh... masa den nak pegi bersihkan badan aka mandi pagi tadi pun tak dibagiknye... asyik nak berkepit jeks... pastu mintak 'titi'... penat sengsangat badan ibu Kaisah and Thaqif nih... rasa berdenyut-denyut kat ulu hati... lapar, haus dan macam-macam rasa dok ada... mane taknye, lepas bb Thaqif nyusu, kak long Kaisah lak nyusu... bukannye sekejap, lama pulak tu... dah macam anak kembar la pulok... arini jek tadi... dok mintak nak mandi dari pukul 11 pagi sampai ke pukul 1 petang pun Kaisah tak bagik lepas... huhuhuhu...

Pastu tengah hari tadi ujan, dalam kul 2.45pm baru lah dapat bernafas skit... pastu layan Kaisah belajar Iqra' kat lappy sampai kul 4.30pm... kul 4.50pm ayah Kaisah and Thaqif balik dari keje and he bought some new clothes for his daughter and son... so, sessi menerai pakaian dan posing for Kaisah of course... pastu, dalam kul 6 lebey, mandi petang... then, Kaisah start buat perangai balik... bb Thaqif of course sleeping safe and sound... masa sessi Kaisah dok wat perangai tu... ya ampun, memang naik hangin satu badan den ni ha...

Mane taknye, tak kena ape-ape pung, tapi jeritnye bukan main lagiks... ala-ala kena dera pulok... geram tul, padahal dah ngantukz... nak tido tu tido jek la kan... nama pun budak kecik... ibu Kaisah and Thaqif tadi memang tak bley nak tahan geram dah... sebabnye dari malam tadi Kaisah dok wat perangai... tengah-tengah malam nak menyusu pastu pegi menangis kuat-kuat pulak... dapatle dia, cubitan 2, 3 kali... (kesiannye anakku)...

Nih sekarang nih Kaisah ngan Thaqif tengah tido, ibu Kaisah and Thaqif felt so sad on the incident that happenned just now actually... tak berniat pun nak sakitkan Kaisah... I cuddled her up slowly and whispered at her ears on how much I loved her... pastu Kaisah bukak mata sikit... pastu den tanya la kat Kaisah... sakit ke tadi ibu cubit... 'sakit...' katanya... alalalalala... kesiannye anakku... terus aku peluk dan cium dia...

@ baby blues

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It seems to make no sense: At a time when you expected to be so happy, you feel down, weepy, moody, or irritable. In fact, there are very good reasons why about half of new moms get the so-called baby blues.

During the first weeks home with a baby, sleep deprivation, recovery from childbirth, the demands of newborn care, lack of experience with babies, and not having enough help can all be highly stressful. The huge hormonal shifts that occur after you give birth can also affect your moods, especially if you have a history of severe PMS. Then factor in modern America's expectations about moms "doing it all" and new moms being "blissed out," and you have the makings of a perfect storm for mild depression.

Knowing that these feelings are normal can help. It's a good idea to confide your feelings to people you love and trust: your partner, your parents, another relative, or a close friend. Connecting with other new parents online or in your community can help you see that you're far from alone.

Carve out time for yourself. Let your partner or a grandparent stay with your baby while you visit a friend, go shopping, or just take a relaxing bath. Even sitting outside or taking a walk with your baby in the fresh air can be beneficial.

Leave work behind. (HAHAHAHA) Really! Remember this is maternity leave. Turn off your cell phone and avoid your computer. Use these weeks to nurture your ties with your family.

If feelings persist more than a couple of weeks, tell your doctor. You may have postpartum depression (PPD), a more serious condition. The causes of PPD aren't completely understood, but it's not a reflection on whether you're a "good" mom or "coping well." Symptoms of PPD include extreme anxiety, panic attacks, changes in eating habits (overeating or loss of appetite), insomnia, and thoughts of harming yourself or your baby.

Friday, May 28, 2010

@ test signature

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Tadi ibu Kaisah and Thaqif ade la wat signature digital kat mylivesignature... tapi cam tak reti la pulok nak park kat semua entry... patutnye leh auto jek... hmm, camno ek... nampak gayanya, buat sementara ni... kena wat 'manual' la dulu... for each entry kena copy paste la signature tu...

@ water tank keta meletup

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Actuallynye, kami pun kompius camne lah water tank keta Pak Itam leh melotup... well, not actually meletup as in 'kebaboom'... but mebi the water tank was opened when it was still in a hot condition... ye arr, pressure from inside the water tank kan lebey kuat darik pressure kat luar... thus, ia akan menghasilkan suatu letupan kecil yang mana suatu ledakan air akan terpencik once it is opened... tengok le badan kazen tuh... habih melecur... tapi kira alhamdulillah la... dia maintain cool... kalo nak diikutkan sakit woo...

On that day, hubby la yang paling bz as usual... coz he has always been the bread and wine of the family kan... no matter for our own family ke, family pak-pak sedara ke... mak-mak sedara ke... he'll always be the one... he went to Sunway kot kalo tak silap pi amik anak Pak Itam... pastu terus pi ke Kerinchi bawak pi kat this one tempat perubatan tradisional... alhamdulillah lepas dah check semua... everything was ok...

After that, hubby rushed back to the scene at Sunway where Pak Itam was waiting... ke ayong was waiting over there ek?... hmmpp, tak hengat la pulok tapi ayah Kaisah and Thaqif went back to settle on the car... bawak le ke bengkel... ya ampun, kat 5 rat wa cakap lu nak mengr'repair'nye... hmm, apo nak buek, benda dah terjadi... kata pun malang tak berbau kan... thus, repair jek la... kalo tak, tak berjalan la keta tuh... (tu pun jenuh gak mintak kurang... dapat le gak kurang sampai kat 3 rat lebey)


=> moral of the story, please do not open the car's (van's, lorry's etc) water tank when it is still hot...

@ reasons for c-section (ceasar)

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I have been experiencing twice of the C-section procedure to-date for both delivery of Kaisah and bb Thaqif... it is not that I wanna be operated, I want to undergo a normal delivery of course... sebabnye, kalo normal delivery lebih cepat sembuh, lebih senang dijaga unlike kalau kena operate... nak jaganya payah, perut pun membuncit... bukan membuncit sebab ape... all of the angin tak dapek keluar sebab after under-going the operation mane bleh pakai bengkung, tak bley diurut (cuma belakang badan jek la)... my condition during delivery can be categorized in the unplanned surgical category... kiranya, memang tak plan pun nak kena bedah... tapi due to bb's heart beat dah lemah... bahaya untuk bb... takpelah anak-anakku... ibu rela berkorban untuk kamu-kamu...

Berkorban apa saja
Harta atau pun nyawa
Itulah kasih mesra
Sejati dan mulia

Kepentingan sendiri
Tidak diingini
Bahagia kekasih
Saja yang diharapi

Berkorban apa saja
Harta atau pun nyawa
Itulah kasih mesra
Sejati dan mulia
hmm... hmm... hmm...

Untuk menjadi bukti
Kasih yang sejati
Itulah tandanya
Jika mahu diuji

Berkorban apa saja
Harta atau pun nyawa
Itulah kasih mesra
Sejati dan mulia

=> Info from baiboo

Most women hope for a vaginal birth of their baby, but sometimes this is not possible, or not safe. Usually, women who will give birth by c-section know this in advance. But sometimes this decision is made during labor. There are many reasons for your doctor to decide you can’t deliver vaginally.

Some of the conditions that may require a planned c-section are:
* The baby is in a breech (bottom first) or transverse (sideways) position.
* You’re carrying three or more babies.
* The baby has a known fetal illness or abnormality.
* You’re having a genital herpes outbreak, which can be passed along to a baby delivered vaginally.
* You have placenta praevia: when the placenta is blocking the baby’s exit, because it’s very low in the uterus.
* You have abruptio placenta: when the placenta is separated from the uterine wall and the baby is in danger.
* Your pre-eclampsia (swellings due to high blood pressure) is getting worse fast, making it dangerous to delay delivery.
* You have had multiple caesarean sections.

Women have an unplanned surgical delivery for several reasons, including:
* The baby’s heart rate becomes irregular, which means that she may not be strong enough for a vaginal delivery.
* The placenta has abrupted.
* The umbilical cord slips through the cervix, it may get compressed during delivery and cut off the baby’s oxygen supply.
* The baby is not moving down the birth canal, because the cervix has stopped dilating or for a different reason.

@ more breastfeeding could save babies' lives

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(HealthDay News) - Each year, more than 900 preventable child deaths occur in the United States because too few mothers follow breastfeeding recommendations, a new study has found.

Child health problems associated with poor breastfeeding compliance cost the country $13 billion a year in direct health-care costs and indirect costs, such as missed time from work, according to the researchers at Cambridge Health Alliance in Massachusetts.

Of the 911 deaths per year cited in the report, 95 percent were infants and resulted from sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS), lower respiratory tract infections (such as pneumonia), and necrotizing enterocolitis, which is a disease that occurs primarily in preterm infants.

The study was published online April 5 in the journal Pediatrics.

Nearly 75 percent of U.S. mothers start to breastfeed, but only 32 percent breastfeed exclusively at three months, and that drops to 12 percent by six months. At one year, only 22 percent of mothers are doing any breastfeeding, the study authors noted.

The medical recommendation is to breastfeed exclusively for six months with some breastfeeding for at least the first year of life.

"People shouldn't blame mothers because they are often not supported well, even from the moment their babies are born," study author Dr. Melissa Bartick, a hospitalist at Cambridge Health Alliance and an instructor in medicine at Harvard Medical School, said in a news release.

The average U.S. hospital does a poor job of providing evidence-based care around infant feeding, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Other factors that make it difficult for mothers to follow breastfeeding recommendations include limited work, social and cultural support, as well as aggressive marketing of infant formula, Bartick said.
-- Robert Preidt

=> just wanna share the info
=> credit to babycenter

@ Kaisah has achieved

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=> Kaisah has achieved
A toddler is aware only of what's immediately before him. But by 2, a child grasps the relative placements of things, and his understanding of space expands between 2 and 2 1/2. No, not his understanding of the cosmos but of where people and objects are in his own little world. This includes concepts such as "there," "where," "inside" and "outside," "go away," "near" and "far," "way up in the sky," and "over" and "under." He's gaining a better sense of size, quantity, and other spatial relationships.

You can see this new grasp of spatial thinking in the words he picks up and in his growing ability to follow directions: "Bring me the ball that's over in the corner." "Look on top of the bed."

Some ways to reinforce this new understanding:
* Talk about where people in his life are when they're not with him: "Daddy's at work." "Grandma lives far away."
* Give a series of simple instructions that involve different directions, such as first putting a toy on the chair, then under the chair, and then giving it back to you.
* Ask questions that prompt him to think about location: "Where do birds live?" "Where do airplanes fly?" "Where's the door?" (Don't expect a correct answer every time or turn it into a quiz; just make questions like these part of your everyday conversation.)

=> Ibu and ayah to do
Once your preschooler has dropped his morning nap, the afternoon one becomes more important than ever. Go easy on the number of errands you have to do in a row and mind the clock. Try to be home by naptime. Kids who fall asleep in a car seat or stroller do rest, but their quality of sleep isn't the same as when they sleep in a bed.

@ Thaqif and dimples

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Bb Thaqif ade dimples... sejibik cam ayahnye... hiks... mata pun ikut mata Kaisah... mata hitam yang besar dan altho slightly sepet... tatau la dah besar skit nanti matanya akan kelihatan seperti Kaisah or not, bulat jek... huhuhuhu... partially, I am feeling kind of 'sad' plus 'bengang' coz until today I still cannot bluetooth pictures of bb Thaqif with his beloved sister from hp to the lappy... HUH!!! how lar this can happenned?... x paham la... u'olls layankan aje la entry ni ek...

Lesung pipit terjadi apabila otot pipi meregang apabila seseorang senyum dan menolak pada kulit, apabila dalam keadaan tidak senyum pula, otot pipi akan berada dalam keadaan rehat maka lesung pipit tidak kelihatan... Genetik untuk lesung pipit merupakan dominant trait yang mana ia akan diwarisi turun-temurun... hmmm, ayah Kaisah and Thaqif memang ade dimples at both cheeks... that's why la ia diturunkan kat bb Thaqif... sebabnye, memang 25-50% akan diwarisi oleh anak sekiranya salah-seorang means ibu atau bapa memiliki lesung pipit... buleh gak baca definisi dimples in English yang dicedok dari wikipedia...

Dimples are visible indentations of the skin, caused by underlying flesh, which form on some people's cheeks, especially when they smile (may be obscured by male facial hair). Dimples are genetically inherited and are a dominant trait. Dimples are usually found on both cheeks. A rarer form is the single dimple, which occurs on one side of the face only. Anatomically, dimples may be caused by variations in the structure of the facial muscle known as zygomaticus major. Specifically, the presence of a double or bifid zygomaticus major muscle may explain the formation of cheek dimples. This bifid variation of the muscle originates as a single structure from the zygomatic bone. As it travels anteriorly, it then divides with a superior bundle that inserts in the typical position above the corner of the mouth. An inferior bundle inserts below the corner of the mouth.

=> credit to wikipedia for the information on dimples...

@ alamak vs ala emak

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During my maternity leave nih, Kaisah sering gak la buat perangai... almaklumla... dah ada bb Thaqif... dah jadik Kak Long... thus, a lot of things la yang dibuatnye... well, of course untuk menarik perhatian la kan... bebudak yang baru dapat adik kan selalu camtu... sekejap nak tu la sekejap nak ni la... kadang tuh geram pun ade... sabo jek la...

Ibu Kaisah and Thaqif actually 'agak bz' gak menyetelkan keje-keje opis yang telah diamanahkan untuk disiapkan... that's why I can be seen on9 forever... hiks... sementelah nak buat keje opis, mane nak tengok bb Thaqif, mane nak melayan kerenah Kaisah... tergelak ngan satu scene yang telah berlaku semalam aka 27052010...

Kaisah as usual dok nyibuk nak kacau ibu... bb Thaqif lak dok layan tido jek... since ibu buat dunno jek, Kaisah pun mintak la nak main game kat lappynye... so, I on her lappy and bukakkanla game seperti yang dikehendaki that is Z.U.M.A... dah bukak game nak suruh kita main sekali lak... iskkk, sabo jek la... so, I played with my beloved daughter... bukan main ngat pun, tengok dan bersorak untuk Kaisah... yang kelakarnye ialah part bila all of the 'balls' masuk kat dalam mulut tengkorak... i said alamak... Kaisah lak ngan konfidennye jerit... ala emak... hihihihihi...

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

@ mari berposing gaya Kaisah (II)

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Anakku yang bijak bergaya... kalau senyum lak tuh... suka naa senyum senget...hik hik hik... nih masa kat Tesco Puchong (tempat yang Along Kashah ilang aritu tu... hihhihi... nostalgia sungguh)... takde la besar mane playlandnye... tapi cukup untuk membuatkan bebudak melompat-lompat untuk bermain di sana... ahaks... selalu kalau lalu situ, memang ibu Kaisah and Thaqif akan mentioned earlier... 'kawasan berbahaya'... kena indicate awal-awal that we are approaching an area which is dangerous... kalau tak nanti, payah nak mengelentong bebudak nih... wakakakaka...

Gambor yang kat bawah ni pulok adalah gambor membuat kapal aka topi... sambil berposing di umah bersama Along Kashah...

@ mari berposing gaya Kaisah (I)

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Gaya-gaya Kaisah... suka betui dia dok ikat rambut cenggitu... ahaks... gurl lah katakan... setiap kali lepas mandi, of course masa nak mandi tu pun dok bersilat ngan Kaisah... bukannye ape, sometimes, she wanna bathe in her sweet cute little blue pool... kadang tuh, nak mandi air ujan... hiks... macam-macam kerenahnye... but still, seronok melayan peel anak... makes me feel good... lupa ngan all of the masalah problemo...

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

@ doing work during maternity leave

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=> this is how ibu Kaisah and Thaqif looks like currently... hiks...
=> credit to growingsweetpea for the cute cartoon...

@ kalau tanak jaga... cakap

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@ wanna park the skills in Kaisah and Thaqif

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Shapes
A.1 Identify circles, squares, and triangles
A.2 Identify squares and rectangles
A.3 Identify cubes and pyramids

Count to 3
B.1 Count dots (up to 3)
B.2 Count shapes (up to 3)
B.3 Count objects (up to 3)
B.4 Represent numbers (up to 3)

Count to 5
C.1 Count dots (up to 5)
C.2 Count shapes (up to 5)
C.3 Count objects (up to 5)
C.4 Represent numbers (up to 5)

Count to 10
D.1 Count dots (up to 10)
D.2 Count shapes (up to 10)
D.3 Count objects (up to 10)
D.4 Represent numbers (up to 10)

Count to 20
E.1 Count dots (up to 20)
E.2 Count shapes (up to 20)
E.3 Count objects (up to 20)
E.4 Represent numbers (up to 20)

Comparing
F.1 Compare groups (fewer or more)
F.2 Compare in a chart (fewer or more)
F.3 Compare in a mixed group

Positions
G.1 Inside and outside
G.2 Left and right
G.3 Left, middle, and right
G.4 Above and below
G.5 Top and bottom

Classify
H.1 Same
H.2 Different
H.3 Same and different
H.4 Classify by color

Size
I.1 Long and short
I.2 Tall and short
I.3 Light and heavy
I.4 Holds more or less
I.5 Compare height, weight, and capacity
I.6 Wide and narrow

Money
J.1 RM and cents
J.2 Dimes and quarters
J.3 RM and cents, dimes, and quarters
J.4 Count cents

=> gathered the info from a Pre-Kindergarden Mathematics Institution...

Monday, May 24, 2010

@ kenapa tak bley bluetooth

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Kenapala lappy nih tak bleh menerima bluetooth dari tepon aku?... aduyai, tensen dibueknyo... owang ade banyak gila gambar nak upload nih...
1) Gambo Thaqif
2) Gambo masa 2nd besday Kaisah
3) Gambo2 lain

Pelik la... aritu bole jek bluetooth... tapi guna tepon ayah Kaisah n Thaqif la... nih sekarang nih dah tak bole pulak... both phones tak bole... dunno why...

Adekah sebab Windows Vista??? Earmmm... terbantut niat den nak memblog...

Saturday, May 22, 2010

@ learning about my 2 years old

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A young preschooler wears her heart on her sleeve — and in her voice, her fists, her stamping feet, and her crocodile tears. You seldom have to guess about a 2-year-old's emotional state. Expressing emotions is healthy, even when they aren't happy ones. So don't feel you have to rush in to placate your child at the first pout or sad sniffle.

Let your child know that it's okay to be unhappy sometimes — it's simply part of life. Swooping in to vanquish the unhappiness sends the wrong message — that it's not okay to feel sad or mad. Solving every problem for your child also robs her of the opportunity to work through her feelings on her own.

What you can do: Label her feelings for her. "You're so mad at Mommy because she said no park today!" Let her know you have the same feelings, too, sometimes: "It makes you feel sad when we say bye-bye to Grandma. It makes me feel sad, too." If your child screams or hits when she's angry or upset, show her acceptable ways to vent her emotion, like punching a pillow or stamping her feet.

Your life now:
If you find yourself bracing for those fabled "terrible twos," relax. It's the second year of life (the one you've just passed through) that's among the more challenging developmentally. The actual "twos" tend to be a bit calmer and even more fun. Now your child can move about with confidence and play with less assistance. She can make her wishes known better than before and understands even more than she can say. And her boundless curiosity is balanced at least a little by an increasing understanding of rules. Two-year-olds do test limits and disagree with parents, of course, but they're also developing more of a desire to please you. They want to be good! They want to help! Routines and consistency in your responses help your child learn the ropes and keep everyday life running smoothly.

@ welcome to Muhammad Alif Thaqif

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=> born on 17052010
=> baru laaa ni dapat update belog... tepon lak tak bole upload gambar guna bluetooth...
=> will try harder... hihihi... wat sementara ini jek la dulu pic yang ada ya... ;)

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@ happy 2nd birthday to Nur Alif Kaisah

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MySpace Codes

=> on 21052010
=> nanti upload gambar cakenye... tahun ni tak dapek nak wat makan2 almaklumla... ibu Kaisah tengah dalam pantang...
=> ibu dan ayah senantiasa mendoakan agar Nur Alif Kaisah membesar dengan bijak, kuat dan sihat serta menjadi insan solehah yang berjaya demi kebaikan agama, bangsa dan negara...

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Friday, May 14, 2010

@ 7P cara mendidik anak

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Anak anugerah, jangan dirotan, dimarah, dimaki hamun. Mereka akan sangat sedih dan mencari kasih sayang dari yang lain. Ada suami isteri yang sgt sedih dan merasa tidak sempurna tidak dikurniakan anak, teringin utk merasa sakit bersalin, sentiasa menangis di dalam hati ketika melihat wanita lain mengandung, tetapi ada yg tidak berkahwin mendapat anugerah anak, ada pula ibu bapa dikurnia anak tidak bersyukur, menjadi sombong, bongkak, mengeluh dengan kesusahan menjaga dan mendidik anak. Bersyukur hanya ketika anak dilahirkan.

Kaedah 7P dalam pendidikan anak:

1-PERHATIAN - berilah perhatian yang maksimum sehingga hatinya puas, jgn hanya menonton tv selepas pulang kerja, berita mengenai anak2 orang lain terbunuh, kemalangan dll, sedangkan anak sendiri di rumah tidak diberi perhatian. Apabila anak memanggil kita sering mengabai dan memarahi, anak akan melakukan ini kepada kita di kemudian hari, mereka belajar dari kita, what you give is what you get. Perhatikan bakat, minat, fesyen yg disukai anak dll.Anak2 sangat2 perlukan perhatian ibu bapa ketika kecil, ketika remaja lebih2 lagi mereka perlukan perhatian ibu bapa.

Tips jika anak membuat aksi2 nakal ketika tetamu dtg ke rumah, anak2 ini hakikatnya mahu perhatian ibu ayahnya, utk mengatasinya, beri sedikit sahaja perhatian kepadanya dengan memuji dan memeluknya. InsyaAllah dia akan kembali tenang.

2-PUJI DAN PELUK. Pujian akan membuat kantung jiwa anak penuh. Ayah perlu memuji anak perempuan spy anak perempuan tidak tercari2 pujian dan penghargaan dari lelaki lain. Ayah juga perlu puji anak lelaki bagi menunjukkan perhatian dan penghargaan. Ibu juga perlu puji anak lelaki agar kantung jiwa mereka penuh dan hati mereka tenang. Malaikat Jibril memeluk Nabi Muhammad SAW ketika baginda dalam keadaan takut. Peluk anak kita ketika dia takut, ketika sedih, dan ketika gembira. Peluk anak sebelum mat rempit peluk anak kita, sebelum org lain peluk anak kita.

Anggap anak org lain seperti anak sendiri, kerana pada hari ini ibu bapa sibuk bekerja, anak2 boleh berbuat dosa di mana-mana mengikut suka mereka sendiri. Alangkah baik jika seperti dulu, mana-mana lelaki dewasa sekampung dapat menjadi bapa ketika anak2 di luar rumah, dapat memberi perhatian dan teguran seperti seorang ayah.

3-PENDIDIKAN. Pendidikan pula terbahagi kepada 3 A - 1-Akademik 2-Agama 3-Akhlak. Elakkan dari pendidikan tidak seimbang, menjadi org akademik yang tiada agama atau orang agama yang tiada akhlak.

Ajar anak kita ketika mendapat sesuatu dari kita ucapkan "terima kasih ayah, terima kasih ibu, terima kasih Allah". Anak2 perlu diajar, jgn biarkan mereka terus terusan kurang ajar. Jgn biarkan anak2 meminta2 duit raya, jgn biarkan mereka memaksa ibu bapa membeli handphone mahal, membeli motor dll sehingga ibu bapa terpaksa mencari duit lebih atau menipu/tidak jujur dengan syarikat bagi memenuhi kehendak anak. Ajar/didik anak ikut zamannya, dapatkan skill2 parenting yang baru.

Utk mendidik akhlak, ajar dengan sabar, hormati ibu ayah, tunjukkan cara bercakap yg baik, tunjukkan cara mendengar yg baik, puasa isnin khamis, bangun malam bersama anak2.

4-PUJUK
5-PENGHARGAAN
6-PERIKSA (MUHASABAH)
7-PUKUL

=> from Anak Anugerah Allah (Tanyalah Ustaz TV9 14 May 2010)

Monday, May 10, 2010

@ untuk ibu

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Orang kata aku lahir dari perut mak..
(bukan org kata...memang betul)

Bila dahaga, yang susukan aku.... mak
Bila lapar, yang suapkan aku.... mak
Bila keseorangan, yang sentiasa di sampingku.. .. mak
Kata mak, perkataan pertama yang aku sebut.... mak
Bila bangun tidur, aku cari.... mak
Bila nangis, orang pertama yang datang .... mak
Bila nak bermanja, aku dekati.... mak
Bila nak bergesel, aku duduk sebelah.... mak
Bila sedih, yang boleh memujukku hanya.... mak
Bila nakal, yang memarahi aku.... mak
Bila merajuk, yang memujukku cuma.... mak
Bila melakukan kesalahan, yang paling cepat marah.... mak
Bila takut, yang tenangkan aku.... mak
Bila nak peluk, yang aku suka peluk.... mak
Aku selalu teringatkan ... mak
Bila sedih, aku mesti talipon.... mak
Bila seronok, orang pertama aku nak beritahu..... mak
Bila bengang.. aku suka luah pada.. mak
Bila takut, aku selalu panggil... "mmaaakkkk! "
Bila sakit, orang paling risau adalah.... mak
Bila nak exam, orang paling sibuk juga.... mak
Bila buat hal, yang marah aku dulu.... mak
Bila ada masalah, yang paling risau.... mak
Yang masih peluk dan cium aku sampai hari ni.. mak
Yang selalu masak makanan kegemaranku.... mak
kalau balik ke kampung, yang selalu bekalkan ulam & lauk pauk..... mak
Yang selalu simpan dan kemaskan barang-barang aku.... mak
Yang selalu berleter kat aku... mak
Yang selalu puji aku.... mak
Yang selalu nasihat aku.... mak
Bila nak kahwin..Orang pertama aku tunjuk dan rujuk..... mak

Aku ada pasangan hidup sendiri....

Bila seronok, aku cari....pasanganku
Bila sedih, aku cari.... mak

Bila berjaya, aku ceritakan pada....pasanganku
Bila gagal, aku ceritakan pada... mak

Bila bahagia, aku peluk erat....pasanganku
Bila berduka, aku peluk erat.... emakku

Bila nak bercuti, aku bawa....pasanganku
Bila sibuk, aku hantar anak ke rumah.... mak

Bila sambut valentine.. Aku bagi hadiah pada pasanganku
Bila sambut hari ibu...aku cuma dapat ucapkan “Selamat Hari Ibu”

Selalu.. aku ingat pasanganku
Selalu.. mak ingat kat aku

Bila-bila... aku akan talipon pasanganku
Entah bila... aku nak talipon mak

Selalu..aku belikan hadiah untuk pasanganku
Entah bila... aku nak belikan hadiah untuk emak

Renungkan:
"Kalau kau sudah habis belajar dan berkerja... bolehkah kau kirim wang untuk mak?
mak bukan nak banyak... lima puluh ringgit sebulan pun cukuplah".
Berderai air mata jika kita mendengarnya........

Tapi kalau mak sudah tiada..... .....
MAKKKKK...RINDU MAK.... RINDU SANGAT....

Berapa ramai yang sanggup menyuapkan ibunya....
berapa ramai yang sanggup mencuci muntah ibunya.....
berapa ramai yang sanggup mengantikan lampin ibunya.....
berapa ramai yang sanggup membersihkan najis ibunya.......
berapa ramai yang sanggup membuang ulat dan membersihkan luka kudis ibunya....
berapa ramai yang sanggup berhenti kerja untuk menjaga ibunya.....

dan akhir sekali berapa ramai yang sembahyang JENAZAH ibunya.....

Seorang anak mendapatkan ibunya yang sedang sibuk menyediakan makan malam di dapur lalu menghulurkan sekeping kertas yang bertulis sesuatu. Si ibu segera mengesatkan tangan di apron menyambut kertas yang dihulurkan oleh si anak lalu membacanya.Kos upah membantu ibu:

1) Tolong pergi kedai : RM4.00
2) Tolong jaga adik : RM4..00
3) Tolong buang sampah : RM1.00
4) Tolong kemas bilik : RM2.00
5) Tolong siram bunga : RM3.00
6) Tolong sapu sampah : RM3.00
Jumlah : RM17.00

Selesai membaca, si ibu tersenyum memandang si anak sambil sesuatu berlegar-legar si mindanya. Si ibu mencapai sebatang pen dan menulis sesuatu di belakang kertas yang sama.

1) Kos mengandungkanmu selama 9 bulan - PERCUMA
2) Kos berjaga malam kerana menjagamu - PERCUMA
3) Kos air mata yang menitis keranamu - PERCUMA
4) Kos kerunsingan kerana bimbangkanmu - PERCUMA
5) Kos menyediakan makan minum, pakaian, dan keperluanmu -PERCUMA
Jumlah Keseluruhan Nilai Kasihku - PERCUMA

Air mata si anak berlinang setelah membaca apa yang dituliskan oleh siibu. Si anak menatap wajah ibu,memeluknya dan berkata,

"Saya Sayangkan Ibu". Kemudian si anak mengambil pen dan menulis "Telah Dibayar" pada mukasurat yang sama ditulisnya.

Sunday, May 9, 2010

@ happy mother's day

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=> received from Baiboo... so sweet ya...
=> btw, happy mother's day to all mommies around the world especially to my ibu, mak, MIL, in-laws, nenek, opah, aunties, cousins, friends etc...

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